I’m about to teach you one of my most powerful techniques used to created attraction, curiosity, and make you stand amongst REALLY attractive women.
First, to understand WHY this technique is so powerful I’m going to tell you a quick story.
We have a man and a woman… they are engaging in some usual chit chat although today seems a little strange. The man is a little bit extra fidgety and nervous, he’s having trouble concentrating. Finally the woman asks, “What’s up? Your acting funny today.”
His heart begins to race, he can’t remember what he practiced, he begins to fumble his words but he doesn’t even know what he’s saying. He’s thought about this for the last 3 months, the moment where he’d work up the nerve to FINALLY tell her “how he REALLY feels” about her. His rationalization is that if she ONLY knew how he REALLY felt about her then she would be able to like him back “that way”. She’d realize how great he is and that her Prince Charming is right in front of her, she just needs to know how he feels. It will open the door and allow her in.
Somehow he fumbles through his thoughts and gets his point together enough for her to understand his intention. Before she responds, he already knows what she’s going to say.
“You know, you’re a really great guy. You really are. It’s just that….well…can we just be friends?”
He begins to think about how he’s DIFFERENT then all of the assholes she’s spent those late night phone conversations having with him. He made it a POINT to be different then that…. after all that’s what she DIDN’T want right?
Maybe he just didn’t say it right….as he goes home he replays how things went in his mind, what he said, what he FORGOT to say.
The story of his life. He begins to think of ALL the other women he’s worked up the nerve to “share how he felt” with in his past….ALL ending the same way.
He feels inferior, worthless, and lonely. He begins to wander if he’ll EVER meet a woman that could possibly like him. He begins to think that he NEVER will, after all…the last 8 women he’s liked all said the same thing. It must be because he’s not handsome, or that he doesn’t have a Porsche or 3 trillion dollars.
Perhaps you can relate to this story. I’ve told it because this is EXACTLY the way I thought for over the first two decades of my life. I experienced this EXACT scenario more times then I care to remember. In fact, even thinking of this scenario brings me back that feeling of anxiety and nervousness and perhaps you know what I’m talking about.
How to do you feel when you think of the last time you got REJECTED by a woman?
It sucks right?
So what’s the point of this story?
Let’s think about an attractive woman. She has men drooling over her and putting her on a pedestal ALL THE TIME. Even though she doesn’t share this information with you, there have probably been about 478 THOUSAND guys that have “shared the way they REALLY felt” about her.
She responded the exact same way EVERY time.
So what do you need to do?
Well there’s a short incomplete answer… and there’s a really long and much more complete answer. The short answer we will cover in this newsletter.
The long answer is here
Okay, so the reason why she wants to be friends is because she didn’t feel any attraction. If she doesn’t feel attraction then you’re like a brother, little kid, old man, uncle.
She can love all these men. However only one type of man makes her need to change her underwear if she thinks about him too long. The man that makes her wet downstairs is the man that she feels attraction for.
This man, isn’t sharing the way he feels with her BEFORE he’s kissed her, flirted, displayed his INTENT, or even had sex. This man KNOWS when she likes him, so he has fun.
One of my favorite flirting techniques is something I call “Flip the Script.” There is something very interesting about this technique which I’ll talk about in a second after I explain it.
Basically, with “Flip the Script” you take anything that would generally be seen as a female stereotype and “flip it” onto yourself.
A few examples.
You could say something like
“Are you hitting on me?”
“So when are you going to take me out to dinner?”
“You seem really nice…let’s hang out and see if we can at least be FRIENDS first.”
What makes these seem so different?
Well generally, this is something a WOMAN would say to a man. When you flip the script, a MAN is saying it to a WOMAN. Now THIS is different right? It’s kind of funny and peculiar in a way that puts YOU in control of the status and sexual dynamic of the situation. Now we’re getting somewhere.
The thing is about “Flip the Script” is that you only really do this if you haven’t done it before. After you begin to have success with women, you aren’t flipping the script. It is actually the way things are!
In short, at first it’s a technique but soon it becomes a reality.
Still confused? Not to worry, read on.
Think about it, if a REALLY attractive woman has a man all of the sudden ask her “when she is taking him out to dinner” what’s going to happen?
She’ll be curious, her Auto-Pilot Boring mechanism will not activate and she’ll want to know what this man is all about.
My favorite “flip the script” technique.
“You seem cool, at the very least, can be friends”
You can use this a NUMBER of different ways. If she’s hesitant to meet up so say something like, “Hey, whatever…. you seem like you MIGHT be fun and that maybe we can be friends”
Now this might sound CRAZY to you if you’ve been someone hearing this from women all your life. This suggest, that you are unsure about her but are interested in meeting up. The way a man with OPTIONS who is NOT DESPERATE would think.
Again, let’s think about HER perspective. Men talk to her for ONE REASON….that is to get into her pants. When a man who has had dating experience and know how to handle a woman meets someone new….he isn’t all goo goo ga ga to meet her. She is after HIM.
When you convey that “Hey, you seem like you could be cool, perhaps we could at least be friends.” It say all the right things. It turns something that she’s said to a MILLION guys around on to her.
Now SHE is thinking, “Friends? This guy doesn’t want to fuck me? Might be cool? What?!”
It also can convey “Okay, this guy doesn’t want to get into my pants and wants to be friends? Okay, I gotta see what this is about.”
She’s likely NEVER had a guy say this to her.
The truth is, unless you’ve spend a good amount of time getting to know her and have gotten physical on SOME LEVEL. You can’t possibly know how you really feel about a woman. She knows this and you simply CAN’T GO THERE early on.
Sure, once you’ve been dating for a while or you are in a relationship, you can share your feelings.
In the beginning keep it fun.
Flip the Script anyway you can and see where it leads you. If you want to learn DOZENS of techniques like this and a deeper understanding of WHY they work and HOW to use them then you need to get “The Dare to Date” ebook program right now.
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Alright, you have no excuses. No sitting around this Friday night throwing a pity party because you don’t have a woman to hang out with. Get out there and put this information into action or download the program NOW.
Until next time,