What’s up.
Unless you live in complete isolation in the boonies, you likely pass by women regularly every day.
Perhaps you see women at the grocery store, the mall, coffee shop, or you hit the bars and clubs at night.
If you’re like MOST men, you probably glance at many of these women and think, “Damn! The things I’d love to do to her…”
And depending on what kind of guy you are, your mind will run off into many different directions…
But like most men, you probably don’t do anything about it.
Or perhaps this is the day were you are finally going to do something. If the situation allows, you might say “hello” or wait for that perfect opportunity to arise to make some sort of magical move.
Two things likely happen.
You wait for that perfect opportunity that never arises and you’re left thinking about her the rest of the day. Replaying what you SHOULD have done…or COULD have done.
OR
You end up kicking yourself for what you did WRONG.
You’re just left with a memory for the SPANK BANK!
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Or perhaps you even KNOW some women, sh*t most of us do.
That friend of a friend, a co-worker, neighbor down the street, the coffee girl/bartender, your buddies girlfriend’s friend, there are likely many women in your life you aren’t even aware of.
Yet you’re waiting for something to happen.
Maybe you’ve been waiting for a very long time.
Maybe you’re sick and tired of waiting.
Perhaps you can relate to this. I’m only talking about this because this is the way I used to be.
Thinking back on my old life, I literally missed out on THOUSANDS of opportunities. I did a lot of thinking about this and I came to an interesting conclusion.
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There are 2 reasons why men are NOT GOOD with women.
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REASON NUMBER 1
You don’t have to be. This is the category that over 98% of men are NOT IN. I’m certainly not in this category and I’m going to take a wild guess that you are not either.
This is the guy that’s so god damn good looking he doesn’t have to do anything. Perhaps on top of this, he’s a loaded zillionare and he naturally has a crafty and suave style.
He was just BORN SMOOTH.
You know the guy I’m talking about. He doesn’t have to be good with women, women choose to be good with him.
Basically women just throw themselves at him. He enters a room, smiles and women rip off their undies and drag him into the other room.
Sure would be nice eh?
Okay, perhaps it’s not quite that dramatic but I think you get the point.
We’ve all seen this guy and perhaps harbor a little bit of jealousy or animosity towards this man. It’s hard not to… I mean he just HAS IT.
He doesn’t do shit, yet all the women line up for him. You know who I’m talking about.
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REASON NUMBER 2
This is a little bit more complicated reason for not being good with women.
This is the category that YOU and I fall into.
This is VERY interesting so pay attention.
There are TWO PARTS to this reason.
PART 1***
Since we’ve gone through our ENTIRE lives watching guys get women, we often assume all men who are good with women are in the previous category I just spoke of.
Not knowing the secrets of attraction, we automatically assume that is the ONLY way to attract women, which is …don’t do anything…if you got it, it will “just happen”.
We assume that we must be good looking or a born natural.
So when we run into that attractive woman at the store or club… we position ourselves so that we “hope” we get noticed and cross our fingers. Waiting for that perfect opportunity or mumbling out an awkward “hello”.
As you know, this rarely works.
But what else are you supposed to do right? I mean it rarely works but isn’t that the way it works?
No, it’s not.
PART 2 ***
You simply don’t believe you can you can be “good with women” therefore you just don’t try. You don’t do anything. You believe you are NOT attractive to the opposite sex and simply let the countless opportunities pass by every day, week, month and years.
Or even worse, in an effort to make up for your perceived lack of attractiveness, you make up for it by being overly “nice.”
As we know, the “nice guy” generally finishes last.
But what else are you supposed to do? If you can’t naturally attract women you have to make up for it in other ways right? So why not show her how nice you are? How much of a good guy you are? This will get her attention right?
On the surface this seems logical. However this just makes her run away and puke.
Let’ review what we just covered.
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2 reasons why men are NOT good with women.
1.) They don’t have to be- They are so damn good looking and naturally smooth they don’t have to be “good with women.” Women come to them.
2.) Seeing this provides most men with evidence that this is the ONLY way. Therefore they either DON’T TRY because they don’t believe it’s possible for them.
OR
They try by NOT TRYING. Yes, that’s a weird tongue twister oxy-moron.
Trying by not trying? Essentially this is relying on FATE and LUCK that she’ll somehow realize your a fantastic dude.
It’s like buying a lottery ticket and hoping someday you’ll win. Sure, it might happen but chances are pretty slim.
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WHAT SHOULD YOU DO ABOUT THIS?
So if most men are NOT even trying? What does this mean?
It means there is TONS of opportunity for you.
If hardly any men are even trying to get these women, what would this mean to the guy who figured it out?
I’ll give you a hint. Once upon a time, I was taking Real Estate class at the local Junior College. The instructor made one very important point that stood out for me.
3 percent of the Agents make 90 percent of the sales.
I can honestly say that is the same when it comes to dating. A small percentage of men are dating the majority of the attractive women out there.
Okay so what then?
There’s TONS of opportunity out there, you just need to LEARN how to master this.
If you’ve never sold houses before and you get a job at a real estate office…you’re probably gonna suck at your job. However, if you get a good mentor and someone shows you the proven tricks of the trade, chances are MUCH HIGHER that you’ll have success.
Okay so maybe you don’t want to sell houses. However, I’m sure that there is SOMETHING you’re passionate about in your life, something you’re a little bit GOOD AT. I’m sure you didn’t learn this instantly, it took some time.
My point is this. If you’re passionately interested in getting something done, I’m sure you can do it. If you’re passionately interested in meeting and dating great women, then you can LEARN how to do it.
That’s the secret to this all. Hardly any men realize that you can literally LEARN how to get REALLY good with women.
If you would have told me this 15 years ago I would have never believed you.
I was absolutely HORRIBLE with women and I thought that was just the way it was. Like most people in the world, I didn’t think there was anything you could do about it.
You can literally learn how to attract women regardless of looks, age or money.
The coolest thing about this is that once you have learned how to do this, it’s EASY.
It’s so easy because NO ONE ELSE IS EVEN TRYING!
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Best of luck out there,
Bryan