I’m going to be blunt and honest right now.
Have you ever been offended?
Have you ever talked shit?
Have you ever felt sorry for yourself?
Has someone ever made you feel bad?
Has anyone ever taken advantage of you?
Are you so stubborn that you don’t accept help from others?
Do you ever feel isolated around attractive women?
You have demons within you destroying your chances with women as we speak.
Don’t worry, I’m not going to get all spiritual on you. The fact is, you likely found my web-site to improve your skills with women.
And I WILL do that…IF you let me.
You’re likely looking for ways to improve your conversation skills and techniques to help create attraction so you can get that special girl. If you’ve been on my web-site for any length of time then you know I deliver when it comes to that.
I get emails everyday from someone who asks me “what to say” to a woman on the street, their new co-worker, or when they are at the bar with their buddies. If I can, I write back to you. I put things into books, newsletters and audio. Sometimes that same guy I wrote back, will write in again with a “new” problem…again looking for something “to say”.
He’ll often refuse to acknowledge his demons…opting for the magic pill instead.
It is because you have demons that have been haunting you all your life. You learn, to suppress them and ignore them.
What am I talking about?
You’re probably thinking, I dunno about this Bryan guy…
Perhaps you seek to better your skills with women to overcompensate for the fact that you are short, overweight, bald, poor, shy, weren’t loved enough by your mom, insecure, or anything else that I didn’t mention but you know what I’m talking about.
You know what I’m talking about.
It’s easier to learn a step by step process of what to say…. in theory. Then when it doesn’t work, it’s easy to say, “that guy is stupid…his stuff doesn’t work.”
That’s the easy road. It’s easy to be a hater, it’s easy to criticize, it’s easy to complain. The men who find real success challenge their demons head on. It’s very hard to accept our shortcomings and it’s very hard to step up and TAKE ACTION.
This is difficult ONLY if you’ve never done it before. People who have done it before, know that TAKING ACTION is actually the easy route. For those of us who have had better mentors in our lives, they likely learned this stuff without even realizing it.
So, tell me, do you EVEN know what your demons are? True success with women will NEVER be achieved if you never recognize your demons.
Without figuring out your Inner Reality, you’ll be handcuffed, a prisoner, scouring the world and the Internet for answers looking for a solution. It’s a weird thing that likely makes you uncomfortable. If it DOES make you uncomfortable or “you already know this” then that’s a sign that you REALLY need to focus on this part of your game.
I’ll go first.
When I was terrible with women there were a whole truckload of demons I had to work out.
I believed that I was too skinny to attract women. I’m the skinniest guy for my height that I’ve EVER SEEN. On top of that I came from a single parent household that consisted of a revolving door of drug addicts and weird shit that no child should be subjected to.
Okay, boo hoo, we ALL have our demons.
The fact was, I had now where to turn to for answers, no one to trust, and no frame of reference for what was good.
Being a guy, society teaches us that if you attempt to reach out for help, you’re a coward.
This gave me EVEN MORE of a mindfuck.
Well that’s utter bullshit.
The truth is you MUST use your demons to FUEL your progress.
You must seek help if you need it. No successful man gets to where he is without help from others on SOME level. It’s MORE mature to accept your shortcomings than ignore them.
Humans by nature thrive off of relationships with OTHER PEOPLE.
I was watching a documentary on Netflix the other night called “This Emotional Life”.
Part of the documentary consist of people overcoming their fears.
They had a woman who was afraid to fly and a Vietnam Vet who couldn’t leave the house due to post dramatic stress.
So they worked with someone to overcome these demons.
How did they do it?
They recognized it and hit it straight on. They dove RIGHT INTO it, however it was easier with the help of someone.
Seems counter intuitive to the person who is afraid and has spent their entire life suppressing and ignoring their paralyzing fears.
NONE of my conversation skills and flirting techniques will work if you are consumed by your demons.
So let me ask YOU a question….
What holds you back and why?
Why aren’t you confident with women?
Why don’t you believe you offer value?
Why did you look to the Internet for help?
What to you expect from me or anyone else who’s trying to help you?
Write out a real response to these questions. I’m serious dude.
What are your demons? Why have you been ignoring them.
Look, I can’t help everyone in the world nor do I have the desire to. You can think this article is stupid all you want and if that’s the case, do yourself a favor, leave this web-site now.
However, if you’re the type of person who is going to be successful with women. You’ll take whatever you can out of these newsletters and allow new information to provoke your thoughts.
You’ll challenge yourself constantly.
I challenge you to do the best you can to identify your demons that are holding you back.
Are you going to let me help you? Or are you going to criticize everything in the world for the rest of your life?
If you’re ready to take action and tackle your demons head on, get your reality dialed in, develop ROCK SOLD identity level confidence, and learn DOZENS of techniques for talking to women, dating women, making the moves and the whole dealeo then get my eBook course “The Dare to Date” now.
If you’re even THINKING about checking this program out then do it. I stand by it 100 percent with a full refund guarantee. Straight up.
Until the next FUN newsletter…